and I thought it was just the greatest thing. I basically sucked at everything,
but I realized, "Hey, I can improve whatever I suck at,"
and that's pretty cool. But I ran into a problem
that almost everyone going through the same journey runs into
which is basically starting to want to improve everything. So it goes something like this...
This is awesome! Starting tomorrow I'm going to wake up early,
meditate for an hour, go to the gym for two hours,
go to work and as soon as that's done, go to a martial arts class,
come home and learn how to play the guitar because I've always wanted to play it,
and once I'm done with that, I know it's really late,
but I'm going to work on my five different business ideas.
And that sounds so good
because all of a sudden you're excited about life again.
But... Here are the two most likely outcomes of that
dream... The first, and the most likely one,
is that you won't be able to actually do it. I don't care how great you think your willpower
is, because willpower's like a battery.
It gets drained.
So when you start your day off trying to be
the Dalai Lama, and then Ronnie Coleman,
and then Anderson Silva, and then Jimi Hendrix,
and finally at midnight, you want to be Mark Zuckerberg,
You won't be able to get to the Silva, Hendrix, and Zuckerberg point,
if you even make it that far because the battery is empty by then. The other option,
and this is very unlikely, is let's assume a hypothetical situation where
you somehow can manage and consistently get through all those things.
In this unlikely scenario, the best outcome is that
you'll still end up being average at everything. That's it. Just average.
So we're talking about success here
in terms of how it's usually defined. We think of the Dalai Lama as a success at
what he does, we think of Ronnie Coleman as a success at
what he does, same thing with Anderson Silva, and Jimi Hendrix,
and Mark Zuckerberg. Now if you look at all those people,
what do they have in common? You don't see Mark Zuckerberg busting through
his shirt. Why? Because if he dedicated his daily hours
and focus to his workouts,
he just wouldn't be Mark Zuckerberg.
Same thing with Ronnie Coleman.
If he's going to be up on the stage in 6 months, he's focusing on one thing, and that's his
physique. He's not playing the violin while
building awesome business websites. And all of that leads us to this idea
of the ONE thing. Every person who we view as successful
has the ONE thing that they focus on.
If it's Mozart, it's the piano.
It's not the piano plus hitting the gym, and shooting a basketball for hours.
If it's Lebron James, it's basketball. It's not basketball plus playing the piano,
and trying to compose for hours. Now let me make this clear that
I'm not here to define success for you. Your definition of success might be different
than what's commonly accepted.
Maybe for you, Mozart and Lebron James aren't
successful. Maybe you like the idea of being okay at everything,
and having a more balanced lifestyle. And that's fine.
I'm not here to tell you what you should do or how you should think. But if you're asking about how to be successful
and success is defined for you by someone like Mozart in music or Lebron James
in basketball, you do have to realize that there's almost
no balance with that kind of success.
There just isn't.
So if you've been following the channel,
I took a month off from making these videos and this was one of the biggest things I had
to think about. What do I want?
And it wasn't an easy choice. On one hand, I could pick a very balanced
lifestyle. Wake up and dedicate my time to whatever I
want like the gym every day, the piano every day,
cooking awesome meals every day, thinking about and exploring all the different
business ideas that come to my head every day,
and a hundred other things that I'm slightly interested in...
Or...
Just focus on the ONE thing, which is read as much as I can
and then share those ideas. And that's what I ended up picking.
So my ONE thing literally consists of just reading and researching all day
and my ONE thing at night is spending quality time with my girlfriend.
That's it. The only other thing I really do is go to
the gym, and I've had to cut that down to full body
workouts as well. And if you've noticed,
my posting pattern has been a lot more different than it used to be.
I mean there's no way I could be posting at this pace
if I decided to have balance and not focus on this ONE thing.
There's no way I can be hitting the gym for two hours every day,
getting better at playing the piano, cooking gourmet meals all day,
focusing on 5 different other business ideas, and then consistently be putting out videos
and focusing on my reading, so I can turn this into something great,
because my willpower battery is going to be completely empty
by the time I get to it.
So ask yourself,
what is your ONE thing? Are you a Zuckerberg who's trying to also
look like a bodybuilder? And also ask yourself,
what do you want? What do you want?!
That's the most important question here! When I'm trying to explain a book,
I like to use real life examples of how something would be done,
but I think I make it come across like I accept and fully implement a 100% of every
book I read, which I guarantee you has never happened with
any book no matter how great.
And I also sometimes phrase things in a way that implies that you should do something,
which isn't my intention either. I genuinly don't care about what you do.
I don't go to sleep at night worrying about whether people are unconscious in front of
the TV at home or doing something proactive. So if you want to have a balanced life,
I'm not here to tell you that you need to be a success at something.
And I'm not here to tell you how you should think of success either.
But, if you want to know how to be a success, and you define success like it's usually defined,
then I'm here to explain it. The only way you're going to get there
is by understanding what your ONE thing is and then completely focusing on that.
I wish there was a way to have a perfectly balanced,
harmonious life, and also do extraordinary things.
But there isn't.
I've tried it so many times and have failed
so many times. Mozart didn't achieve extraordinary success
in music because he had a balanced life.
He didn't meditate two hours every morning followed by two hours at the gym
and a two hour session of reading philosophy books
before he finally started playing the piano..
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